I despise the residents of my society

Like a normal day, after my college hours I was heading to my office which is about 2 to 3 minutes walk from my uni. Along the way comes a bus-stop, Thapathali bus-stop to be specific. It was too crowded as usual.

A lot of pedestrians were waiting for the arrival of vehicles to reach their destination. Office workers, college and school students and also few teachers ( I could recognize them through the ID card they were hanging around their neck), basically most of the people were literate.

Among them was a physically challenged woman who was struggling to find a way out in that crowd. She was visually impaired. Anyone could make it out and her only helping hand was her cane.

I was about 10-15 steps behind and was trying to reach out to help her but the struggle was real. It was difficult for me to reach to her. I could see people gazing at her with the looks of confusion and sympathy. But none could take a step ahead to help her. Pathetic, isn’t it!? What would you do if you were there? Would you puzzle yourself in thoughts about helping her or not or just go ahead and do what you have to do without having a second thought about it? Right now you might be saying yes, I would help, I mean who wouldn’t, but trust me in the real scenario people tend to act different. All their words are rarely brought into practice.

Well I do not say that there was none willing to help. Yes, there was this little boy reaching out his hand to help her walk easily. Innocence of a child, well that did not last longer. It’s heartbreaking to tell you that he could not do what he wanted to, because his mother pulled him to walk faster to get in the bus. (They might have been late for something, never mind.)

So finally, I came closer to her while she almost tripped off in a puddle. Luckily, I happened to save her from falling and hurting herself. Yes, I know it sounds like a bollywood movie scene but that is what happened. Then I  asked her, “Where do you need to go?” She replied, “Lagankhel.” So I waited with her holding her hand trying to help her get a seat in the vehicle.

You might be thinking , ok now she could get in the bus and go safely. Well you are wrong there. You might have noticed seats reserved for women, disabled and old aged people in public vehicles. I did to and thinking that I thought she could get one easily and can reach where she wants to go.

To my surprise one after another micro buses came along all people started rushing as if it was some kind of race and within a minute or so it was heavily packed. Yet, I requested the conductor and the driver to manage seat for that lady but none did. The traffics were chasing the vehicles, whistling hard asking them to move faster. I felt so bad thinking that she might have to go with this everyday and who counts how many times a day. Damn it!!

To add up, one of the driver asked to come few steps ahead signalling that the seat will be managed. And fuck that driver by the time I walked 2 steps with her, he drove off in no time. Even till now nobody, literally nobody came up to help. Everyone was seeing it all, they could have took a step back and helped her get in first, but no, our society is filled with social sites freak who only tend to click pictures and posts them so that they can get notifications of “RIP”, “So sad to hear that” comments in their posts. Their mind can never be broadened enough to do something beyond that. I despise the residents of this society who belong to that category.

Finally, one micro came which was quite empty and the bus-stop was less crowded everyone had left by then. So I finally managed to get her in the vehicle in the front seat of the micro and she bid a farewell by saying, “Thank you”.

I felt  a bliss after hearing those two words. After requesting the driver to help her reach to Lagankhel, I finally continued my walk to my office.


I am writing this because I wander how many people really stand up for someone. Someone who is in real need of help. It is really disheartening to witness such literate people ignoring such incidents. Those profit-based service providers refusing to provide proper service and playing with someone’s sentiments. Such little things matters if not to you to the person you are offering help to.

I just want to request to whoever is reading this today, if you ever get a chance to help someone do not be that stupid literate fool, instead take a step ahead to create an example. It starts from you and it starts now, right from this moment.

Thank you!


(The conversation was held in my native language – Nepali.)


 

Boudhanath Stupa

Boudhanath known as “Khasti” in Nepali language, is located at Boudha, Kathmandu. One can easily get here in a local bus, tempo, micro bus, taxi, or even self drive to this location.

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The Buddhist stupa of Boudhanath is one of the largest in the world. Its height is about 36m and is designated as world heritage sites since 1979.

It is believed that thousands of deities incarnated as lamas in the Baudha Stupa. It is said that because of Rabne, the rays of Bodhisattva’s entered in, from heaven and the holy sound was heard in the sky. That is why,it is viewed with a great reverence.

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Boudhanath Stupa is not only famous among the Buddhists but among the other religion followers too. From children to youngsters to old, every individual comes here to pay a visit and to find peace of mind and soul.

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The Stupa had been severely damaged in April 2015 Nepal earthquake. As a result a lot of reconstruction was done which was completed by the end of Oct 2016. In-fact, it was the first monument to be reconstructed after that devastating earthquake.

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There are a lot of hangout spots around the Stupa which is praised by both internal and external tourists. One can also find various restros that serve delicious Tibetan foods such as: laphing, pojay momo, et cetera.

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It is indeed one of the best places to visit as the scenic beauty of the Stupa and background hymn gives immense ecstacy.

A short video on Boudhanath Stupa, follow to be updated about my poss!!

 

 

Suicide

Hey guys, today I am going to talk about a really sensitive topic, which people tend to ignore or neglect until the occurence of some mishaps. So the topic is Suicide. Actually, I wanted to write about this since a long time but I had to find a really nice way to present this and leave a positive impact on people.

I have finally prepaed this post, so let’s get started:


As per the wikipedia, Suicide is defined as ” the act of intentionally causing one’s own death” and there can be various causes to persuade one to reach to that point.

Since the past few months, there has been a rapid increase in the number of suicide cases. The bizzare thing about suicide is while one chooses to finish his/her life to end the pain, he/she is actually transmitting that pain to someone who really cares about the person.

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Well if you are feeling suicidal and reading this right now, you might think that nobody cares about you or it is not gonna harm anyone and all that you just read is bullshit. Well, that’s not true! I believe that there is no individual in this whole world who is unloved or not worthy of being cared.
You need to know that as the persona, it differs from one individual to another how they choose to show the love and affection. Some might shout at you to make you aware of the bad friend circle while some can talk to you in a nice way for the same case. While some might threaten to leave you if you don’t quit your bad habits, while some can stick to you 24/7 to ensure you don’t get habituated to it again. All I am trying to say is, people have their own ways of communicating and showing their care. We should be able to see the motive behind their talks and actions rather than comparing them to someone else or your fantasies of how situations should have turned out to be and make an unfavourable conclusion.

Any situation should be analysed and thought through accurately so that you do not end up howling about every little things and bottle up a lot of negativity within you for no reason. Positive and negative stuffs should be distinguished carefully while your mind is at peace. That’s why people say that, hasty decisions will only lead one towards great trouble.

As I said earlier, there are many reasons for attempting to end self: depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia. These are mental health  condition which can be fought and are defeatable. It is basically found to have started from the smaller stuffs.

If you are one of the person who thinks that you do not have any interesting factors in your life: like you are not lucky, anything you try doesn’t work at all, your parents are always complaining about your studies and how irresponsible you are, or if you are a graduate and choose to stay home all day: the relatives complain about your career, your crush not responding to your texts, people commenting on your size/ height/ color or anything that is troubling you which you do not open about with people, willing to help then that is when it all piles up deep down to your heart and starts creating venoms to poision you to death.

Yes, if you take it lightly and choose a positive way of dealing it alone then that’s good too, you do not necessarily need to open about every stuffs. Unless you are a person who has started doubting about your worth, and feel like you are drowning inside with loneliness and start crying out for little or no reason at all, then you should seek out for help. It is high time you do. And trust me it is not a bad thing to be depressed or ask help for mental health conditions. If you think that people around you would not understand about how you are feeling then, do not forget that there is always a professional just a step ahead, waiting for a knock at their door.

You might be thinking, that why is she talking as if she is an expert! I  know I am not a psychologist or some research expert. I just wanna be a helping hand to end this devastating issue which seems to have spread as a trend in today’s world. Above that, I believe that one does not need a degree or some special courses to save a drowning soul.

So if you want to help someone who is suffering inside or if you yourself are, then here are few tips that can help you stabilize your mind and heart and ultimately free your soul from cynical impacts.

  • I understand that, it’s not always possible to prevent suicidal thoughts, but keeping your mind healthy with regular exercise, healthy eating and maintaining friendships can help you cope better with stressful or upsetting situations.
  • If someone is feeling suicidal, then encourage them to talk about their feelings, ask questions without making them more irritated. Do not just leave by saying that it happens to all, do not rush so fast to make a judgement cause you will only push them farther from you. Listen to them carefully and provide suggestions without making them feel inferior.
  • If it is you that need help, think about the first five closest people who have always stood by you and then go and talk to them about what you are going through. They will surely stand by you.
  • If suicidal risk is high or severe, make sure guns, knives, drugs and other harmful substances are out of reach and do not leave the person alone in any circumstances.
  • Suggest or take an appointment with a psychiatrist, if you feel it is really needed. No need to be ashamed of it cause extreme emotional pain and distress is not a sign of an mental illness. And it is better to seek help than ending a life, isn’t it?
  • Make a safety plan and continue your support/ keep sharing your feelings to your closed one (if it is you) over the long haul.

Things that you are not supposed to do with a suicidal person:

  • Argue.
  • Act shocked when they share their feelings.
  • Give promising advice. One needs to understand, how badly the person might be hurt and your confident promises if not fulfilled might break them into more peices.
  • Do not blame yourself, if you are unable to fix their problem. Instead ask for professional help. While doing this you might have to break your promise of keeping their problems as a secret. But what needs to be done for betterment cannot wait longer, right?!

Lastly, I wanna mention that certain series or movie can depict how people end their life on what terms and conditions, like for example: 13 reasons why. I want you to be aware that such film clips might sometimes show relevant stuffs while most of the time they are just exaggeration in order to make business. So, one should not be moved or be influenced by such reel events and make hasty decisions in real life.

Because everyone is precious in their own way and so is your life and ending it would not be a right decision no matter what the reason is.


Thank you, so much for sticking upto this last line, I hope I was able to make a point. If you like it or think that it could be helpful for someone, then do share and help to create a suicide free society.

Let’s go by the quote, “Happy Soul for a Happy Living”!!


शायद

हरेक पाइला तिम्रो, मेरो जीवनको उज्याली बन्यो,

हरेक बोलिले तिम्रो, मलाई हास्न सिकायो,

हरेक स्पर्शले तिम्रो मलाई बाच्ने एउटा नयाँ उमङ दियो ।

तिमी मेरो मुटुको ढुक्ढुकी, तिमीनै मेरो जुन र तारा, तिमीनै मेरो जीवन भन्थेउ…

तर आज, मलाई ह्जारौ सपना देखाइ छआडिगएु,

रुदैछु आज यो अन्धेरी साँझमा, ति मिठा पलहरु सम्झी,

तिमीलाई जीवनसाथी बनाउन कती रोए, कती कराए, कती प्रयास गरे,

तर…..

तिमी मेरो नरही गएु आफ्नै संसारमा, शायद तिमी एउटा मिठो भूल रहेछौ,

सपना बुन्न त सिकाएु, अनि आँफै ति गुच्छाहरुलाई चुडेर गएु!

कही कतै मैले भुल त गरिन?

कही कतै तिमीले मेरो माया लाई बुझेनौ?

शायद! शायद माया मैले गर्न जानिन, तिमीलाई आफ्नो बनाउन जानिन,

शायद! शायद!!

तर माया त तिम्रै लाग्छ सधै, तिम्रै बास हुनेछ यो मुटुमा,

तिम्रै पर्खाइमा आजपनी यो मन रोइरहेछ, 

फर्की आउ माया, फर्किआउ !!! 

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बाध्यता

ति दिन हरुनी थिए, जब ख्यालठट्टा गर्नपनी हिच्किचाउनु पर्दैनथियो, 

र आजको दिन छ, आफ्नो मनको भावना तिमी सामु पोखनपनी सक्दिन,
भन्न चाहन्छु कती माया गर्छु,
कती महत्त्वो छ तिम्रो यो जीवनमा,
त्यो साथ, त्यो आत्मियतालाई कती याद गर्छु भनेर
तिमीलाई लाग्छ होला मेरो मन बद्लिएछ,
तर कसरी भनु समयले बाध्यबनयो मलाई।
तिमी सँग हुने चाहना त कती थियो,
कती सपना बुनेर बसेथिए,
कती समय आजै पनि तिम्रै कल्पनामा बिताउछु,
तर समयले बाध्य बनायो मलाई।

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तिम्रो हुने चाहना हुँदाहुँदै आफुलाई दबाउन बाध्य म,
तिम्रै मुस्कान हेरी जीवन बिताउनेछु।
आजनी तिमीलाई थाहा नदी तिम्रै मायामा डुबेकोछु,
ति मिठा पल हरुकै सम्झनाको शहर मा सारा जीवन बिताउनेछु।
एती मात्रै बिन्तिछ, मलाई घ्रिना नगरिदिनु,
म त तिम्रै हुन चाहन्छु, तर समयले अनौठो खेल रचएकोछ,
बाध्यता मा बधेकी म, मेरो बाध्यता बुझिदिनु,

मलाई माफ गरिदिनु, मलाई माफ गरिदिनु!!!


Trip to Ghandruk

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Ghandruk is a town and Village Development Committee in Kaski District in the Gandaki Zone of northern-central Nepal.
Ghandruk is a popular place for treks in the Annapurna range of Nepal( i.e. specially for Annapurna Base camp trek), with easy trails and various accommodation possibilities. From Ghandruk there are views to the mountains of Annapurna including Machapuchare, Himchuli. By this reason it’s purely in natural setting.

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How to get to this beautiful village?

  • After you reach Pokhara, you can board a bus, hier some vehicle or travel in a bike too. As per your comfort.

{If you are not from Pokhara, and wandering how to get there, then it’s pretty simple:
You can reach to Pokhara by bus, bike or micro vans or even a flight. If you want, you can also reserve any vehicle and drive to Pokhara.}

  • There are various options to reach this village.
  1. You can stop by at Birenthanti and walk along the way to Ghandruk.
  2. As you enter the Ghandruk VDC, you can take up the stone paved staircase that leads to Ghandruk village.
  3. Or simply, drive all the way and take 5 to 15 mins walk up the hill.

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Yaa, that’s all. Pretty simple, isn’t it?


On the way to the village you will be able to see different scenarios of the nature, that will bring peace to mind. And also various cultures and typical traditions of village which has helped the villagers earn their livelihood since ages.

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Here’s a 3 minute video of my trip to Ghandruk. Check it out!

Hope this was helpful, do let me know if you found this helpful. And what you would like me to post about in upcoming days.


 

10 things to do at Pokhara

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Pokhara, the 2nd largest city of Nepal offers a variety of things you can do as per your interest.

Here, are 10 things you would not want to miss out when you make your next plan to travel to this city.

  1. Fewa Lake:

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The basic thing no one misses out is visiting this lake also known as Phewa Lake. Boating is an option available, to take a tour of this lake and visit the ‘Barahi Temple’ situated at the center of the lake.

2. Begnas Lake:

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It is another beautiful creation of nature in the city of lakes where you can witness the reflection of Annapurna and Machhapuchre reflected in the crystal clear surface of this lake. It also facilitates the visitors with the pleasure of boating.

3. Devi’s Falls:

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Also known as पातले छाङ्गो, it’s a waterfall which forms an underground tunnel which is 500 ft long and runs 100 ft below ground level. It is said that a swiss couple Davi went swimming but the woman drowned in a pit because of overflow and so it was named as Devi’s fall.

4. Caves:

  •  Gupteshwor Mahadev cave:

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Across the road from Devi’s falls, this cave consists of a huge stalagmite worshipped as a Shiva linga. All you gotta do is buy a ticket at the gate and clamber through a damp tunnel behind the shrine, you will be able to see thundering waters of devi’s falls.

  • Chamero gufa:

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Also called Bat cave and Mahendra cave, is located close to the Seti river. It is the large limestone cave whoch is famous for the bats that can be seen hanging by the walls.

5. Sunrise @ Sarangkot:

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Anyone who comes to Pokhara doesn’t miss a chance to get to this place. To witness the sunrise and its gleaming rays making, the peaks of Annapurna range shine brighter and brighter as it rises higher in the sky.

6. Peace Stupa:

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Also known as शान्ती गुम्बा, a Buddhist pagoda style located on a hilltop in Ananda hill is a place where you can find an immense inner peace of mind.

7. Bindhya Basini Temple:

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It is located near Bagar, in Pokhara Nepal. It is one of the popular attraction in the city as people come here to worship the hindu deities Bindhya Basini.

8. Pokhara Museum: International Mountain Museum

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With an objective of maintaining systematic records of the successful eight thousanders, geographic flora and fauna and human activities in the range, the IMM has been established at the foot step of fishtail peak and gateway to the mountain region.

9. Sports activities:

Pokhara offers many interesting and exciting sports adventures for the tourists both internal and external.

Some of them are:

  • Parasailing/ paragliding

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  • Zipflyer

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  • Mountain biking

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  • Ultralight

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  • Handgliding

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  • Skydiving

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  • Paramotor

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  • Boating

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10. Live music:

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At the end of the day, being a social animal, you might want to relax with your friends or family, not to disappoint you this city offers a variety of foods and beverages with live music performed by various artists in different restaurants which will surely make you groove and help make new friends along the way.

So, these are the things you can plan to do while visiting pokhara the gateway to the Annapurna circuit, a popular trail in Himalayas.

Let me know, in the comment section down below, which of the above mentioned things you wish to try out and if you already have what was your experience about it and also what topic would you like me to talk about in my next post.

Hope this was helpful, thank you for checking it out, follow to be notified about my posts.
(Reference: some of the pictures were extracted from google for this post)

Rara Lake- The Virgin Lake

The beautiful creation of the creator, ‘The virgin lake- Rara lake’ is located at Mugu district of Karnali zone Nepal. It is situated at an altitude of 2,990m i.e. 9,810ft above sea level with a water surface of 10.8 km square and max depth of 167m.

Rara lake is within the Rara National Park which has unique floral and faunal essence along with rare species like wild bear. The lake holds three epidemic fish species and one epidemic frog (though we did not witness any 😉 ).


How to get to Rara?

  • Day 1: Kathmandu to Nepalgunj (6:00 p.m. -7:00 a.m.)
  • Day 2: Nepalgunj to Kalikot, Manma (8:00 a.m.- 7:00 p.m.)
  • Day 3: Manma to Talcha Airport (6:00 a.m.- 7:30 p.m.)
  • Day 4: Talcha to Rara Lake (2 to 3 hrs of trek)
  • Day 5: Rara to Talcha To Nagma (1:00 p.m.- 6:00 p.m.)
  • Day 6: Nagma to Surkhet (6:00 a.m.- 8:00 p.m. (take a bus from Surkhet to Kathmandu))
  • Day 7: Reach Kathmandu by 12:30 p.m.

 


P.S: That’s how I made my trip to Rara National Park.


My trip from Kathmandu to Rara- The Queen of Lakes

On 1st November 2016, around 6:00 p.m in the evening I along with my crew members boarded our bus destined to reach the Rara lake from Gongabu buspark, Kathmandu. We were filled with excitement to be at a new place and explore its beauty. 

We reached to Nepalgunj by the next morning and after having breakfast we continued our ride and headed to our next stop i.e. Manma, Kalikot (a stop nearer to our destination). We had to spent our night on Manma as it was restricted to ride heavy vehicles after 6:00 p.m. On the third day, continuing our journey we reached to Talcha airport by 7:30 p.m. We spent a night at Talcha having delicious traditional food of Nepal that we had been craving for since days. On the fourth day, finally the day came when we buckled up and secured our shoelace, got set for 2 to 3 hrs of trek from Talcha to Rara lake.

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As we walked amidst the woods of Rara National Park listening to the chirping of birds we reached the Shiva temple and worshiped him. As we moved further, we could see the reflection of Rara lake through the woods. It seemed as if the glitters were shining as the sun rays touched its surface. That moment; when we saw the glimpse of Rara, the true feeling of esctacy, can’t simply describe in words how happy and delighted we were. The color of the sky was reflected by Rara and it seemed as if the sky had fallen on the ground: both deep blue – A perfect scenario. The purity of lake was mesmerizing.

I had no wish to leave this place but as they say, “Travelling is like flirting with life. It’s like saying,”I would stay and love you but I have to go”.

As the night passed and the sun had risen once again, the beautiful morning view of the lake could be seen. It was priceless. Here’s a picture of that scene.

Isn’t it beautiful?

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Slowly, viewing this nature with immense pleasure we returned back to Kathmandu with never fading memories of the trip and carrying everlasting beauty of Rara imprinted in our hearts.

This way, we ended our trip and it was worth it. I know that whenever, I’ll look back to remember this journey from Kathmandu to Rara it is going to bring a huge smile to my face and a peace of mind looking at the pictures of calm and smoothly flowing Rara.

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“Rara- The virgin lake” It is the true definition of beauty.

Here’s a short video of my trip. Check out the link below:


Lastly, if you are struggling to make a choice about your next tour then without any hesitation just pack your bags and head towards Rara Lake. I bet, it’ll be worthful and when you get back home you will be a changed person, filled with better insights and a wonderful story to share with your friends.

 

Keep it simple

When the sky covers the light of the sun, casting darkness in the world, some panic for they cannot see anything while some wait for the silver lining that every cloud has.

In this world, there are two types of people: one who drown deep in the sorrows or mishaps of life and the other one who waits for opportunities/ simply make things happen for their betterment and get over their problem.

Well unfortunately, in today’s world people seem to be easily offended by small things that happen around or in their life, making it more difficult to tackle and look out to the ray of hope that is trying to enter into their hollowness. It can’t be just me who has noticed that youth of today rarely open up their feelings totally to anyone. In the battle of getting better in studies or careers we have forgotten the true meaning of socializing. It is hard for most of the people to come out of the confusion of trusting or not to trust, say or not to say, open up or not to and it goes on and on and on. These thoughts overrule every individuals mind, doesn’t it? That’s why people prefer to update their feelings or moments on various social sites by hiding their own identity. So that there’s no judgement or criticisms maybe.

Whenever a question comes, Who is a man? Or define a human being. A sentence is always mentioned in it, “man is a social animal”. Well I find it funny, cause in the rush of 21st century, we people have somewhere forgotten to enjoy life, true meaning of communication and companionship. Everyone nowadays enjoy the virtual and reel world than the real one.

Before the playground used to be filled with children and teenagers playing games and using creativities to simply have fun. But now, the definition of having fun has totally changed. Watching cartoons or playing some video games in a locked room is more preferred, copying things from internet has taken up the use of own mind, own creativity. Communicating face to face does not occur more, it’s all about chats, messages, calls. Well if I go on comparing the list will be quite long. What I am trying to emphasize on is that, the virtual world has taken over so powerfully that we have lost the true essence of life.

I don’t say I’m not influenced by it, ofcourse I am. Whenever the waiter brings the food on my table even I tend to pick up my phone and upload it asap, like you all. But now that I think deep, instead of grabbing it to fill out the tummy why waste time making some posts, ain’t it? Well I don’t know how effective my words are here, but i feel it’s really high time that we change our lifestyle and try to keep it more simple. You might think this is some usual topic, who cares and stuffs but tell me how many of you haven’t gone through the symptoms of migraine when you had a simple headache. Don’t lie. It’s just an example to show how deeply our lifestyle has been affected by this not so real world. Simplicity at its best has its own beauty. The more we complicate it the more shallowness or depthless our life will become. 

Complication comes in each and every step of our life. And I feel that if we can indulge more in productive activities than hanging on our phone or laptop and be surfing net 24/7 it can be really fruitful. Instead of trying to make connection over some lame trolls and posts and giggling or crying over it how good it be if we could talk in person get some good laughing therapies or share emotions and get over of whatever is dragging you down. Who knows the problem that you thought could take you down the sea might seem less problematic when you know what others are dealing with at the same time they can help you solve yours and save you big time. That’s better than updating status or feeling low reading some posts, isn’t it?

Well life is complicated, infact somebody said that “The most complicated task today is finding a way to live a simple life”. So let us not make it more difficult or complex and try to stop surfing net or social sites to enjoy the little things that is around, mingle with people know about them, open up, feel good and on top keep it simple and see the change. “After all life is really simple, we ourselves create the circumstances that complicate it”.